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Congratulations
you have reached the interview stage, you can deduce several things
from this. Firstly that the company are interested in what you have
to offer, they have read your CV and covering letter and they have
liked what they has seen. You will also have lost much of the competition,
as only approximately 15% of applicants reach this stage.
Having
established that you have the fundamental qualifications for the
job, you have to build upon this and impress the interviewers with
your personality. The purpose of an interview is for the employer
to meet you in person and evaluate whether your personality will
fit into their company.
For
you an interview is a chance to impress and see if this company
has an environment in which you would like to work.
First
impressions
Research by psychologists has shown that people decide what
they think of you within four minutes of a first meeting, therefore
is very important to make a good impression right from the start.
Get
all of your preparation out of the way well in advance, and allow
plenty of time to get to the interview so that you arrive in a cool
calm state. Arrive ten minutes early and use the bathroom facilities
to smarten your appearance. You will not be so nervous if you are
well prepared and look your best.
Confidence
is the magic word, if you are confident then you will be relaxed
and able to talk lucidly about yourself, you will be able to look
the interviewer in the eyes, you will not fidget - you will have
the potential to clinch the job.
If
you are not feeling very self-assured just think, you wouldn't have
reached the interview stage if you didn't possess the attributes
that the company desires. Looking your best and being well prepared
should help, so that when you meet the interviewer you will be able
to greet them openly with a smile, look them in the eyes and shake
their hand.
Don't
let confidence come across as arrogance. Excess confidence can come
across as arrogance can come across this way and it's not an attractive
trait for the employer as it implies that you are not a good team
player.
Multiple
personalities
The subject of this article is 'how to get your personality across'.
However an employer will be looking for different personality traits
depending on the type of job to which you are applying. For example,
sales personnel have to be very outgoing and sociable, and these
characteristics are not so necessary for a software engineer. If
your natural personality is not really suitable for the job to which
you are applying then you should seriously reconsider the direction
of your career because otherwise you may not be happy in the long
term.
Attractive
features that are desirable to all employers include:
Confidence
This can be expressed in so many ways. Look the interviewer
in the eyes, shake their hand firmly. Be chatty and lucid, sit with
good straight posture with your hands on your lap, be precise in
your answers do not 'Um and ah'. Confidence comes with experience,
so tell the interviewer about difficult situations that you negotiated
in your previous jobs, perhaps even mention your world travels or
a time you held a position of power within an organization.
Approachability
To express approachability be friendly and open, smile and pleasantly
greet everyone you are introduced to. Perhaps you trained other
personnel in a previous job, or were a counselor at college, recount
an occasion when professionally someone came to you with their problem.
Sense
of humor
Do not set about cracking jokes, but be responsive if the interviewer
makes a humorous comment (even if it is not very funny). If you
can subtly incorporate humor which is not at the expense of anyone
else then do so, but bear in mind that this is a business interview
and you should be professional.
Responsibility/trustworthiness
These qualities cannot be really seen in a person, but you can
recount the times in your previous jobs that you have held positions
of responsibility. For example any job in which you had personnel
beneath you, or if you were a scout/Guide leader.
Initiative/leadership
These qualities are linked to confidence, but in addition show
the employer examples of times you have used these skills and have
prospered as a result. For example, you worked on a software solution
to a work problem in your own time and it turned out to increase
the efficiency of the task by 60%.
Body
language
A first impression can be greatly influenced by a person's body
language. You are in trouble if all the right things are coming
from your mouth, but your body is doing all the wrong things.
| Do's |
Don'ts |
| Eye
contact - on first meeting and at regular times during the interview.
This displays interest and sincerity, but do not stare. |
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Fidget - Playing with your CV, bag, hair, a pencil or drumming
your fingers betrays anxiety. Beware of your feet fidgeting
also. |
| Raise
and lower your eyebrows - briefly when you first meet. It draws
attention to your face and although it is subtle, not doing
it can create hostility. |
· Rub your
ear - Gently massaging or tugging on the ear lobe betrays
a subconscious desire to block out the speakers words.
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| Handshake - return a handshake with the same pressure offered
by the other person, avoid using a handshake that is too strong
or too weak. |
· Scratch
your neck - If the interviewer knows his body language, then
they may suspect that what you are saying conflicts with your
true feelings.
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| Walk
tall - Have a relaxed but confident posture as it conveys confidence
and honesty. |
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Tug your collar - An interviewer may think you are telling lies.
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| Opening palms and arms - Honesty and openness |
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Smooth the back of your head - indicates uncertainty |
If
you see any of the following, the chances are you'll have to work
harder to convince the interviewer you are the person for the job:
- If
they are leaning away from you
- If
they fold their arms or cross their legs
- If
they firmly grip their upper arms. This represents either high
anxiety or extreme anger and conveys almost total rejection. It
is the clearest possible sign that he or she is uninterested in
what you're saying.
Chat
to the interviewer when they first meet you and take you to their
office. After the interview confirm when you can expect to hear
a decision from them, then move the conversation on to another matter.
There is no definitive formula for interview success, just be relaxed
and friendly, the easiest way to get your personality across is
to be yourself.
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